About my relationships and how I felt about this one guy I'm talking to currently. I wrote this: Despite my eyes, my lips, and my body: my mind speaks differently. Or maybe, I'm caught up in the minds and thoughts of others. I can't let their thoughts take over me because at the end of the day, I live alone in my misery with noone to love or noone who cares. Or I could live in smiles filled in a world of happiness.
There is a boy that I am currently talking to and my friends do not really seem to like him. My friends think that he is not necessarily on my level and maybe I'm deserving of something better. My friends' opinions really matter to me a lot and when they tell me that I should not date someone because they aren't that cute, it gets me thinking. And I must admit, I get brainwashed by this way of thinking at times. I never really brush of a boy because of their looks, I always keep them around and learn more about them. They usually turn out to have amazing personalities and I become great friends with them. But I keep convincing myself that relationships should be a little more than physical attraction. Of course, it's good to have a sexy boyfriend but what about a guy that can challenge things you say and can hold a meaningful conversation. What about a guy who has an amazing personality? Sometimes these characteristics get overlooked. It's sad. But I guess this is a decision that I will have to make on my own.
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